Nicole,
Just to recap our meeting today with Michael regarding your time off request from Feb 2-9 while we are in market; Michael and I will review the potential appointments that will be scheduled that week and decide whether or not we can manage market without a receptionist. We will advise within next week whether the Out of Office Request is approved.
I would like to take the opportunity to also clarify that market is the most important time for our business. Being part of the operations team, it is our job to ensure a smooth market by providing an organized showroom. Each member of our team has specific responsibilities that are imperative to make this happen. Unfortunately, your insistence to abandon your responsibilities without caring about the consequences leads me to believe that you do not hold yourself accountable for your responsibilities.
Please be advised that this is a formal write up for lack of accountability and reliability. In two weeks, on January 18th we will review your performance for the following:
- Attendance
- Punctual arrival
- Professionalism: Speaking to me or Michael directly about any complaints or concerns you might have, rather than gossiping.
- Presence: Professional and neat
If you would like to discuss or clarify any of the above, please do not hesitate to contact me. I look forward to experience you reaching your full potential.
Devoted <3
August 4th, 2009 at 2:29 am
that does stink…but be the bigger person and give two weeks. It will look good for you in the future. Good luck
Kimberly Q
August 6th, 2009 at 1:04 am
I have experienced an unfair boss too. It is so hurtful. They could use a temp. service to fill in for you when you go on your trip.
I would start looking for another job before you quit. I also know how hard it can be to find a new one. If you find a new job, then give a notice or not and quit if you can.
I am sorry that this has happened to you. It is not right.
Pettyfan
August 8th, 2009 at 6:55 pm
Depends, sometimes it’s better just to leave a job without giving notice if you can’t take the repeated mental stress anymore. I had a boss from hell and got sick of their BS one day and walked out and never returned, I don’t regret it one bit. In your case give them two weeks since it seems that they aren’t as bad as mine was but if they were I’d advise you to find another job first and walk out the day you get your paycheck.
existentialvoyager
August 10th, 2009 at 11:16 am
You should give your 2 weeks notice only because you have to protect your reputation. Regardless of how well you guys got along, it just looks better if you remain professional.
That way you can leave guilt free and don’t have to worry about anyone looking down on you.
Good Luck!
bikashroy9
August 12th, 2009 at 11:09 am
Don’t do anything so abruptly .I would suggest you explore the possibility of getting an alternative job anywhere else , which suits you .Once you get this, just place your stipulated 2 week notice , if that’s practice in this …..or else , just submit your letter of resignation (….with or without the copy of that “text message”…..and the summary of events relating to behaviour of this boss ……….. …….which may also be done later on)
lez k
August 15th, 2009 at 10:48 am
Two week notices are an antiquated courtesy. There is on way any employer would give you two week notice before they fired you!
Find another job and if you feel you owe them anything give them a couple of days. You will feel much better for it.
Good luck!
AJ
August 17th, 2009 at 3:07 pm
What do you mean “put in my days”? In every place I’ve ever worked, all time off must be requested. Unfortunately, you cannot simply tell your boss when you will not be there. Vacation must be approved in advance. You should not have scheduled a trip without approval of those days IN WRITING.
Regarding punctual arrival/attendance, unfortunately there are no exceptions to work rules for the failings of public transportation. You are expected to get yourself there on time whatever it takes.
About the professionalism, that’s a broad category into which they can throw anything. Sounds like they interpreted your vacation announcement as gossiping, given the contentiousness of the issue of you taking off during market (which you were responsible for knowing about as an industry knowledge thing). Regarding professional and neat presence, that’s also a catch-all. They better have specifics as to what they feel is wrong with your outfit/grooming.
Frankly, this sounds like a bad match. Get another job asap. As far as giving notice, it depends. How badly will this burnt bridge harm you? The absolute BEST revenge on a bad job ever is to make yourself invaluable and then give notice and go. So mend the rift and **** up, become their best employee ever, all the while looking for replacement employment and giving notice the minute you find it.
There’s a lot you need to take into account. You need a copy of this company’s policies to be able to really decide how to protect yourself best. If a verbal warning is required first, don’t accept the written warning. Whatever you do, don’t sign it or write on it at all. There is no law forcing you to.
Good luck.